Friday, January 12, 2007

reviewing some definitions on soulmates...a couple of definitions I have loved to read include the one by Richard Bach and Thomas Moore

I I go again on the "soulmate" theme. I just find it fascinating and never tire of reading about it. I have tons of material on the subject......and was reviewing some things today....and came across this list of simple definitions....with a couple of my favorites included. Just wanted to share. Oh...the photograph is one of my favorite fractals!
  • Reincarnation: Some believe that a soul mate is someone with whom a person has shared other life times through reincarnation.

    The soul mate could be a friend, business partner, parent, child, sibling, spouse or other family member. These soul mates can be of the same or opposite sex.

  • Other Half: Others believe, like the ancient Greek philosopher Plato, that a soul mate is a person's "other half". This concept was the basis of the movie, "The Butcher's Wife" where the idea of "split-aparts" searching for one another was explored.

    People all over the world believe that we are all searching for someone to make us whole and to share our journey of life with.

  • A dictionary definition is: One of two persons compatible with each other in disposition, point of view, or sensitivity.

Someone for whom you have a deep affinity . A person temperamentally suited to another.

  • Predestination: The movie "Still Breathing" examines the thought that people are drawn together as soul mates by destiny or fate and that being with our soul mate is something we have no control over. This idea of predestination and connection even after death between soul mates was also examined in the movie "What Dreams May Come".

  • Making Life Come to Life: Richard Bach describes soul mates as "A soulmate is someone who has the locks to fit our keys, and the keys to fit our locks. When we feel safe enough to open the locks, our truest selves step out and we can be completely and honestly who we; we can be loved for who we are and for who we're pretending to be. Each of us unveils the best part of one another. No matter what else goes wrong around us, with that one person were safe in our paradise. Our soulmate is someone who shares our deepest longings, our sense of direction. When we're two balloons, and together our direction is up, chances are we've found the right person. Our soulmate is the one who makes life come to life. "

  • Profound Connection:Thomas Moore describes a soul mate as "someone to whom we feel profoundly connected, as though the communication and communing that take place between us were not the product of intentional efforts, but rather a divine grace. This kind of relationship is so important to the soul that many have said there is nothing more precious in life."

  • Feeling at Ease With one Another: We don't believe a soul mate is the ideal or one and only person in someone's life. Our definition of soul mates is people who together want to work on making their marriage a great one. Their relationship feels like a natural fit, and although they need to work on their marriage, it is not hard to do. When soul mates first meet, there is an immediate sense of being at ease and connected.

  • General Belief: Most believe that soul mates can accept and love every part of the other's personality and that life with a soul mate is easy and natural.

1 comment:

Melissa said... I never believed in soulmates before, but now I do believe there is such a thing.